Not absolutely certain. I have children and to control the internet in the house I've implemented site-blocking technology that works really well. Some guys use it to keep themselves accountable.
I personally am trying to cut porn out of my life (tears shed) - all I find then is that everything else becomes like porn (sexy commercials, catalogs, just seeing a sexy women on the street) but I think that is the way it is supposed to be.
Anyway, long story short - with my current rules many things are blocked and I have only two exceptions - shapings.com (where I like to source my wife's hose from) and here now. It is stored centrally in a server. I may give my wife keys to the controls too. She doesn't know about the Den. I had mentioned it long ago, but doesn't know I frequent it still.
I am thinking of removing the exception, which would block me from all of you wonderful people - you feel like family so it makes me a little sad.
Yet, it is 2am here - I am up thinking of sweaty feet as my wife drifted off, and since I am porn free, the den is the only source. I need some sleep.
I wish there was a way to just hang out with everyone here in 'real life' (I hate that term, this is as real as the rest of it)- maybe we should all arrange a get-together... London perhaps? Just tell our family and friends we are part of a secret society and having a convention.
The purpose of this post is just to signal my intention. I almost didn't add the exception, but thought it would be rude to just disappear. I'm not really looking for rebuttals to my core point: I feel hypocritical trying to enforce porn-free life to my teenager (he's been busted four times now and lost his cell phone) and then secretly sneaking off to the Den to get my jollies at night (because even reading 'her feet smelled good' sends me on a joyride mentally or enjoying the thoughts of our sexy female population). Then again, feel free to weigh in as long as you respect my choice and judgment for what is best for my fam and being a man of integrity.
I'll be sure to reply to this thread if / when I remove the exception as a way to say goodbye, but still here for a spell. I'll probably be back after a period (would be awesome if I could bring my wife along next time).