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    Do the majority of men with a foot fetish just like to be dominated?

    I hate to generalize so much and please bare with me i'm new to this.

    I'm really curious if the majority of men with a foot fetish just want to be dominated? or are there other aspects of feet that you like? basically do submission and having a foot fetish go hand and hand for the most part?

    My boyfriend is the only man i've met with a foot fetish and he's pretty dominate normally but it seems like being submissive to me is really what gets him off the most, he does really enjoy tying me down and tickling me or forcing me to let him do things to my feet. So i was just curious if other men enjoy anything outside of being dominated also and if so what?

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    I'd probably agree with that assumption, but the whole femdom thing doesn't apply to me. Then again, I'm probably not your average foot fetishist either!

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    I think it's a fairly common trend due to cultural norms around feet, but it's not a necessary thing; submission and foot fetishes don't always go hand in hand, they're just more likely to.
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    Thank you, i literally knew nothing about foot fetishes until recently and the submission theme seemed more and more common so i just had to ask

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    I don't think it'd be accurate to say the majority, or even most. Some, absolutely.

    I think the two things get mixed up a bit, especially by porn producers, because in a BDSM situation, you might lick somebodies feet as a gesture of submission, regardless of whether one has a foot fetish or not. You combine that with a significant genuine overlap with foot fetishism, and it's an easy, but mistaken, conclusion to come to.

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    ^ That's not a bad thought. It's not like anybody's really quantifying all this data.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sacurason View Post
    ^ That's not a bad thought. It's not like anybody's really quantifying all this data.
    lol true, it just seemed to be a pattern that i noticed, it seems to be the most vocal part of it for one reason or another

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    Well, Actually I'd say no. The foot is at the bottom of the body, so you end up almost always being below or behind the person. As a result you're in the vicinity of the butt or the lowest level of the person, both places signify supplication and surrender.

    I however just like getting the easiest access to feet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DaddysFallingAngel View Post
    lol true, it just seemed to be a pattern that i noticed, it seems to be the most vocal part of it for one reason or another
    I don't disagree with that. That's why I worded my post how I did, because if I were new to foot fetishism, and simply connecting the dots as I went along, I would have arrived at the same conclusion.

    But having both fetishes, independent of one another, gives me a different perspective on things. See how many people will answer "yes" to "can I beat you with a wire coat hanger?". I suspect it'd be rather few, among the foot fetish crowd.

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    You know I always wondered if I wanted to be dominant to a gf into my foot fetish how would I seem dominant while still wanting her feet in my face or what have you. And then you guys shed some light on it. Yeah I too was under that assumption of seeming to be more of a submissive thing until tickling was brought up. And I hear it from a lot of women who said they hate being tickled but what's a better way to be dominant with a foot fetish? Seems legit to me...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mobius_119 View Post
    You know I always wondered if I wanted to be dominant to a gf into my foot fetish how would I seem dominant while still wanting her feet in my face or what have you. And then you guys shed some light on it. Yeah I too was under that assumption of seeming to be more of a submissive thing until tickling was brought up. And I hear it from a lot of women who said they hate being tickled but what's a better way to be dominant with a foot fetish? Seems legit to me...
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    Quote Originally Posted by solebug View Post
    Well, Actually I'd say no. The foot is at the bottom of the body, so you end up almost always being below or behind the person. As a result you're in the vicinity of the butt or the lowest level of the person, both places signify supplication and surrender.

    I however just like getting the easiest access to feet.
    That's a good point also

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    I don't disagree with that. That's why I worded my post how I did, because if I were new to foot fetishism, and simply connecting the dots as I went along, I would have arrived at the same conclusion.

    But having both fetishes, independent of one another, gives me a different perspective on things. See how many people will answer "yes" to "can I beat you with a wire coat hanger?". I suspect it'd be rather few, among the foot fetish crowd.
    Thank you for your answers

    Quote Originally Posted by Mobius_119 View Post
    You know I always wondered if I wanted to be dominant to a gf into my foot fetish how would I seem dominant while still wanting her feet in my face or what have you. And then you guys shed some light on it. Yeah I too was under that assumption of seeming to be more of a submissive thing until tickling was brought up. And I hear it from a lot of women who said they hate being tickled but what's a better way to be dominant with a foot fetish? Seems legit to me...
    I think it's a fun side to explore also, tickling is definitely an option but there are also other things you can do. Like making her lay on her stomach, tying her hands behind her back (or the bed if you like), bending her knees up and tying her ankles together so the soles of her feet are right in your face, there are different things you can do with her in that position, i'm trying not to be too vulgar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mobius_119 View Post
    You know I always wondered if I wanted to be dominant to a gf into my foot fetish how would I seem dominant while still wanting her feet in my face or what have you. And then you guys shed some light on it. Yeah I too was under that assumption of seeming to be more of a submissive thing until tickling was brought up. And I hear it from a lot of women who said they hate being tickled but what's a better way to be dominant with a foot fetish? Seems legit to me...
    My ex used to grab my ankles when he wanted to be dominate. It's once the girl is laying down you can pretty easily be the one in control if your holding her feet, unless she's gonna like sucker punch you to let to of them she can't even get up.

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    For me yes being dominated/ humiliated with feet is a huge turn on but I guess it depends on if your dominant or submissive. What makes it "dominant" is the fact that we enjoy kissing, smelling or overall worshipping your feet because it would make him feel like he is at that level of respect as you put your feet on his face while he worships your feet. But then again that's just how I feel.
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    I love too personally. I love femdom, though light. More like being ordered/"smothered"/pegged/etc. Nothing really pain wise just S&M.

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    I would like to be dominated / ordered or forced to smell. I'm like Kharth though. Not looking for pain, just not into that. I would love a woman to order me to smell her feet or tie me up and stick them in my face. The girl I see now likes to rub her feet on me when we are laying on the couch. She knows of my fetish. She will lay on the couch when we are watching tv and sit down by her feet and they are always in my lap. She rubs them on me and puts them on my face and I love that too. She has yet to demand me to smell them, that would be fun sometime. But I am quite ok with what she has done so far even though she hasn't forced me to smell them or demand I do. I could see in the future her tying me up and doing so sometime.

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    I have never thought about foot fetish as a form of domination, but it's never been about domination for me.

    If anything, I thought this would be considered a form of humiliation to the woman. Not that I am into that either. For me, I just get off on feet and footwear. Simple!

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    To answer the thread question, I honestly couldn't say. It seems to me lots of men with the smelly feet fetish do like domination or the idea of it, but whether it's the majority, I don't know.

    For me though, domination holds no appeal at all. I just like to smell girls' feet, and don't see any reason to attach anything else to that. I'm doing it because I want to, not because I'm forced to, and in some ways I don't see the point of being "forced" or ordered to do something I love to do anyway - but fair enough if that's what you like.

    An additional twist to this - on some occasions I've found myself kind of in a "dominant" (for want of a better word) position in foot-smelling situations. e.g. years ago I worked with a really beautiful blonde Canadian girl. In a conversation that I'd steered around to the subject of her shoes, she admitted she had quite sweaty smelly feet. I persuaded her to let me pull one shoe off and smell inside it. She laughed but was also embarrassed, blushed and said in a begging kind of voice "Pleeeeeaaaase don't tell anyone about my smelly feet". God, it was so sexy, in her lovely soft Canadian accent. There's been a few similar scenarios, where the girl has been the one in that sort of 'disadvantaged' position because she's embarrassed about the smell of her feet. I admit, I enjoy being in that situation. But, as with some guys who want to be submissive, I sometimes sensed the girl was maybe in some way enjoying being in that embarrassed position.

    And this is going to disappoint some of you guys with a love of dominant women - back when I was regularly visiting massage parlours to have fun with hookers' smelly feet, I even embarrassed a couple of dominatrices. Contrary to the cliched image of the demanding bitch, ordering a helpless man to smell her feet, I visited one beautiful mature blonde leggy irish lady who was a dominatrix, and when she realised I was going to take her shoes off, she begged me to let her go wash her feet. Obviously I said I wanted her to not do that, and she very reluctantly let me smell her sweaty feet. On a later visit, she moaned "Oh no, I've been in these heels all day and it's really hot today!" and sure enough her feet stank. On both occasions, you could tell it was a genuine reaction, not put on for show. I loved reducing the dominant mature hooker to that state!

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    Thanks everyone for answering, it's just been something I've been curious about for awhile

    I really love your answer Wringer

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    I had always assumed that they went hand in hand, although never articulated it because yanno that would feed into a stereotype pushed on foot guys. However with the recent freedom to explore that my new relationship has brought to me I am finding I can often get far more from feet when I am being dominant - It is a nice way to enjoy and savour feet as well as just take them and use them as I see fit.

    I am a pretty switchy guy though, so still go bananas for submitting to feet.

    My view that it is a submissive act has changed though.

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